Are you ready to live more true to yourself and become the artist and author of your own life?
Hello! My name is Stephanie ~ I am passionate about inspiring, educating, and challenging your commitment to growing who you are and who you can be with more DEPTH, CONNECTION, PURPOSE, and MEANING.
I specialise in helping people to become their own person.
You might know this hunger for self-ownership as a craving for more realness and meaning in your life. You might find yourself thinking: "I wish I could trust life/myself more, and feel more grounded with uncertainty, rather than getting overwhelmed with fearful thoughts that make me anxious and worried so often."
I mentor people who want to learn how to be more of a 'creator' in their own life story.
You might know this desire as a longing for more authenticity and freedom in your being-ness. This feeling might sound like: "I want to learn how to 'be me' and live more from my own passion and inner direction, rather than living the way that's expected of me and letting other people's desires direct my life rather than my own."
I provide guidance for people who are ready to deeply understand and develop who they are and what they're here to share with the world.
You might know this readiness as a feeling of 'wanting more' from your life. This inner urge might be saying: "I know that I'm meant for more, that I want to live in a more deliberate and purposeful way, and I'm really ready to learn how to lead myself and my life in a more meaningful direction."
Are you ready to live more true to yourself and become the artist and author of your own life?
Hello! My name is Stephanie ~ I am passionate about inspiring, educating, and challenging your commitment to growing who you are and who you can be with more DEPTH, CONNECTION, PURPOSE, and MEANING.
I specialise in helping people to become their own person.
You might know this hunger for self-ownership as a craving for more realness and meaning in your life. You might find yourself thinking: "I wish I could trust life/myself more, and feel more grounded with uncertainty, rather than getting overwhelmed with fearful thoughts that make me anxious and worried so often."
I mentor people who want to learn how to be more of a 'creator' in their own life story.
You might know this desire as a longing for more authenticity and freedom in your being-ness. This feeling might sound like: "I want to learn how to 'be me' and live more from my own passion and inner direction, rather than living the way that's expected of me and letting other people's desires direct my life rather than my own."
I provide guidance for people who are ready to deeply understand and develop who they are and what they're here to share with the world.
You might know this readiness as a feeling of 'wanting more' from your life. This inner urge might be saying: "I know that I'm meant for more, that I want to live in a more deliberate and purposeful way, and I'm really ready to learn how to lead myself and my life in a more meaningful direction."
The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are. ~ Carl Jung
The Top Five Regrets of the Dying
In the book, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying, Bronnie Ware recorded the key regrets that she heard (as a palliative care nurse) from people who were in their final 12 weeks of life.
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life that others expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
Imagine where you could be one year from now if you let yourself be happier and have more courage to live a life true to yourself.
So that you don’t have to get to the end of your life and realize, only then, that not giving yourself the chance to enjoy being you, doing what you love, and pouring your love into those who matter most is your biggest regret.
I BELIEVE ...
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Life is an adventure where we get to explore different ways of expressing 'the knowing of our soul' by following our desires - even though the world we live in makes this seem dangerous to our survival and security.
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Every person is deeply unique, and we all have a 'soul blueprint' that provides us with an 'operating-system manual' so we can understand the unique contribution that our soul wanted to make to the whole. There are many translating systems that can help people decode their unique blueprint and realise the treasures of their creative potential. I enjoy using Human Design, Gene Keys, and shadow work to read your map and guide your 'treasure hunt'.
We are capable of growing and learning no matter what we encounter. Growth is a skill. If it wasn't modeled for you growing up, you can learn it through a mentor. Your quality of learning is dependent upon your tools of consciousness. You can adopt and upgrade your tools at anytime throughout the whole of your life. It's never too late to invite change and discover something new about yourself that can open your life up to the realness of wonders and miracles that you might never imagine from where you stand today.
- Your body is your ally and the home of your true nature. Your thoughts, emotions, awareness, perspectives, responses, insights, along with your wellbeing and openness, can all be upgraded through the quality of presence and devotion you bring to being at home in your body. Feeling listened to, felt, respected, and connected to your own goodness are experiences that live in your body - not outside of you for you to seek from others. It's essential that you learn to trust your body as your ally, so you can come home to your essence.
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It's vital to celebrate yourself as 'enough' every day by speaking life into your being with kindness and compassion. This is the key to surrendering your struggle for control and making life-affirming changes in your health, creativity, communication, sexuality, and the quality of guidance you bring to your children and/or work.
About Me
I use an integrative blend of traditional & transformational ingredients to 'flavour' my unique recipe of support ~ which I call Intuitive Coaching.
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Wisdom from various models of Psychology: Developmental / Attachment, Cognitive, Shadow Work (Jungian)
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Intuitive Insights from your Human Design & Gene Keys 'blueprints'. I use these maps to highlight, translate, and simplify your connection to your authentic nature.
- 35 years dedicated to my own self-awakening journey
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10 years designing and facilitating personal growth programs and retreats in the areas of relationship intimacy, feminine leadership, purpose development, and potential realization - as well as training wellness professionals for certification
- 25 years guiding individuals, couples, and groups in the field of transformational change
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Somatic Practices: Using Breath, Movement, Sound, Touch & Focused Attention to deepen your self-awareness, shift suffering & struggle into insight, and develop new internal resources to live your life more authentically, in tune with your unique nature
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Bachelor's Degrees in Psychology and Art (University of California Santa Barbara)
- Contributing author in the 2022 collaborative book Ignite Your Wisdom
On a personal note: I consider myself an expert grower and passionate wisdom seeker. I work from my home, by the sea on the south coast of England, where I live with my husband and dog.
I love studying transformation, getting lost in the forest, following my intuition, resting and reflecting, engaging in deep conversations about being human, exploring the mystical nature of life, playing with colour and interior design, making people laugh, helping them to feel, cry, release, heal, receive, trust, and believe in their own goodness ~ ultimately, to know themselves as love.
My Human Design profile is: 2/4 Sacral Generator | RAX of Tension 3.
About Me
I use an integrative blend of traditional & transformational ingredients to 'flavour' my unique recipe of support ~ which I call Intuitive Coaching.
-
Wisdom from various models of Psychology: Developmental / Attachment, Cognitive, Shadow Work (Jungian)
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Intuitive Insights from your Human Design & Gene Keys 'blueprints'. I use these maps to highlight, translate, and simplify your connection to your authentic nature.
- Contributing author in the 2022 collaborative book Ignite Your Wisdom
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Somatic Practices: Using Breath, Movement, Sound, Touch & Focused Attention to deepen your self-awareness, shift suffering & struggle into insight, and develop new internal resources to live your life more authentically, in tune with your unique nature
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Bachelor's Degrees in Psychology and Art (University of California Santa Barbara)
- 35 years dedicated to my own self-awakening journey
On a personal note: I consider myself an expert grower and passionate wisdom seeker. I work from my home, by the sea on the south coast of England, where I live with my husband and dog.
I love studying transformation, getting lost in the forest, following my intuition, resting and reflecting, engaging in deep conversations about being human, exploring the mystical nature of life, playing with colour and interior design, making people laugh, helping them to feel, cry, release, heal, receive, trust, and believe in their own goodness ~ ultimately, to know themselves as love.
My Human Design profile is: 2/4 Sacral Generator | RAX of Tension 3.
Intuitive Coaching
I specialise in recognising where and how you are operating with compromise in your self-worth, self-expression, assumptions about life, your capacity to trust, and your receptivity to love.
The DEPTH of our exploration naturally produces INTEGRATION of the past and brings forward a present-moment AUTHENTICITY that will change your life - because you’ll be working with your flow rather than against it. You’ll finally feel safe to RELAX into your 'true nature' and let go of the habit of struggling to be someone you thought you had to be.
Learning to deeply trust and honour yourself. This is our work together.
We'll do this by helping you to understand:
- ~ How you're 'designed' to succeed and thrive in a life of your own creation.
- ~ How to trust yourself and make decisions that are best for you.
- ~ How to build a more secure connection with yourself that feeds everything in your life - your passion, work, dreams, creativity, health, and relationships with others.
In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you.
~ Andrea Dykstra
Work with Me
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This is a collaborative process.
I will be partnering with your willingness and readiness to 'do your work' - which means you being committed to developing yourself and your awareness. Your engagement reflects your desire for change and breakthrough. I will be an 'amplifier' of your efforts, so that you can gain self-understanding more efficiently and effectively than you would on your own. -
Curiosity, self-reflection, and receptivity are essential to the process.
My priority is to provide you with comprehensive support that utilizes insights from Human Design & Gene Keys but is not solely centered on either of these systems. This is an intuitive process which brings forth the guidance that is ready to be received - like picking ripe fruit from a tree. -
Transformation requires an upgrade to your self-knowledge and what you do to apply your new awareness.
I specialise in helping you to not only gain new self-knowledge but also guiding how you apply your upgraded awareness to create new experiences and fresh outcomes. In other words, we deal with the common 'stuck points' that can occur in both therapy and self-development work: "What do I do now that I understand myself better? How does it look different to engage (act, speak, perceive, decide, respond) from this new place of self-love?" -
Transparency is a priority in our partnership.
Transformation needs education to normalise what's been judged, made wrong, and not allowed. It also needs a living model to imprint with, to help establish new permission settings for what it means to "own your life and your person". This is a key difference between mentoring and traditional counseling. Therefore, my mentoring includes sharing my own life experiences, past and present, as a relevant means of modeling the growth process. -
Intuitive Coaching ~ Mentoring Support & Prices
My assumption is that you are looking for consistent support rather than a 'reading'. The structure of my work is mentorship - which means that I don't do single-session readings. The more time I spend with you, the greater depth that I can translate from the direction that your 'higher self' and 'soul map' have to give you.
The price scale runs between £200 - £240 (GBP) per session, depending on which payment option you choose:
Pay In Full -or- Pay As You Go.
PAY IN FULL Mentoring Support: Discounts applied
- A 6-Session Bundle is £1320 - giving you £120 in savings (£220/ea).
- A 12-Session Bundle is £2400 - offering a higher discount and £480 in savings (£200/ea). This package also comes with the added option to pay in 3 monthly installments.
PAY AS YOU GO Mentoring Support: £240 for each 90-minute consultation.
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What's next? Your first step is to click on the Schedule a Complimentary CLARITY CALL button below. You'll find a short questionnaire to complete with your contact details. Once received, I will email you to set up a call, so that we can meet each other and gain clarity about the process. This will give us both a chance to verify that we're a good fit to work together. If it's not a 'green light' for either of us, there won't be any obligation to proceed.
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This is a collaborative process.
I will be partnering with your willingness and readiness to 'do your work' - which means you being committed to developing yourself and your awareness. Your engagement reflects your desire for change and breakthrough. I will be an 'amplifier' of your efforts, so that you can gain self-understanding more efficiently and effectively than you would on your own. -
Curiosity, self-reflection, and receptivity are essential to the process.
My priority is to provide you with comprehensive support that utilizes insights from Human Design & Gene Keys but is not solely centered on either of these systems. This is an intuitive process which brings forth the guidance that is ready to be received - like picking ripe fruit from a tree. -
Transformation requires an upgrade to your self-knowledge and what you do to apply your new awareness.
I specialise in helping you to not only gain new self-knowledge but also guiding how you apply your upgraded awareness to create new experiences and fresh outcomes. In other words, we deal with the common 'stuck points' that can occur in both therapy and self-development work: "What do I do now that I understand myself better? How does it look different to engage (act, speak, perceive, decide, respond) from this new place of self-love?" -
Transparency is a priority in our partnership.
Transformation needs education to normalise what's been judged, made wrong, and not allowed. It also needs a living model to imprint with, to help establish new permission settings for what it means to "own your life and your person". This is a key difference between mentoring and traditional counseling. Therefore, my mentoring includes sharing my own life experiences, past and present, as a relevant means of modeling the growth process. -
Intuitive Coaching ~ Mentoring Support & Prices
My assumption is that you are looking for consistent support rather than a 'reading'. The structure of my work is mentorship - which means that I don't do single-session readings. The more time I spend with you, the greater depth that I can translate from the direction that your 'higher self' and 'soul map' have to give you.
The price scale runs between £200 - £240 (GBP) per session, depending on which payment option you choose: Pay In Full -or- Pay As You Go.
PAY IN FULL Mentoring Support: Discounts applied
A 6-Session Bundle is £1320 - giving you £120 in savings (£220/ea).
A 12-Session Bundle is £2400 - offering a higher discount and £480 in savings (£200/ea). This package also comes with the added option to pay in 3 monthly installments.
PAY AS YOU GO Mentoring Support: £240 for each 90-minute consultation.
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What's next? Your first step is to click on the Schedule a Complimentary CLARITY CALL button below. You'll find a short questionnaire to complete with your contact details. Once received, I will email you to set up a call, so that we can meet each other and gain clarity about the process. This will give us both a chance to verify that we're a good fit to work together. If it's not a 'green light' for either of us, there won't be any obligation to proceed.
Testimonials
What Others Have To Say
I came to Stephanie with my pockets full of 'pieces' of myself, feeling like I was in a free-fall. After years of working with various coaches and healers, I needed help integrating everything I had uncovered within myself. Stephanie helped me to do exactly that!
It felt like she took me to the bedrock of my most authentic self and helped me to understand how I had been constructed over the course of my life experiences, so that I can now move forward with a more empowered understanding of who I really am.
It's rare to meet someone who has such a capacity for depth and practicality, weaving together the esoteric with the day-to-day and making it easily understandable so you can actually apply it to your life.
The path to healing can be very confusing and chaotic, and I am unspeakably grateful for Stephanie and the intuitive clarity she offers so effortlessly.
Victoria B
We are the kind of people who strive to consciously learn from all the aspects of our relationship. In this process, Stephanie is a uniquely gifted guide for us, both individually and as a couple (with her husband, Dan).
Stephanie uses her deep sensitivity & intuition to grasp exactly where we are and inspires us in how we can live our intimacy more fulfilled in the areas that matter most to us - our communication, sexuality, and our purpose.
Stephanie has a gift for translating the impact of our early life experiences into a tangible wisdom that enables us to deal with everyday challenges in a more open and creative way, both individually and together.
It’s been amazing to us that such intimacy and deep processes are possible via Zoom. It is definitely worthwhile to immerse yourself in this support!
Andrea & Werner S
Before working with Stephanie, I used to have a ‘secret inner world’ that, despite my best efforts, I didn’t really value or understand. This created a lot of relationship tension and resulted in me making a lot of compromises that would eventually ruin the relationship.
But with Stephanie's help, I've learned to understand what I need and how my emotional world works. Now I'm able to easily and clearly communicate what’s important to me in a way that creates love where I used to settle for closure or compromise.
I love how it feels like I've learned mostly by intuitive osmosis. Stephanie is brilliant when she's just 'being herself', and learning with her has felt natural and automatic.
If you're looking to find a better way to live your life in connection with others, you owe it to yourself to connect with Stephanie and find out what’s possible for you!
Geoff N
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Stephanie Fabela
All About Intimacy
1 Pembroke Road, Bournemouth
BH4 8HE, United Kingdom
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BH4 8HE, United Kingdom
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